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Apr. 3rd, 2008 | 10:22 am
location: Work
mood: Pensive Pensive

For all of you who have kept up on my blog, you'll remember that I made a post several months ago about my paternal grandfather. We had expected him to pass away soon, and we were surprised that he recovered and continued to cling to life.

Well, last week, he had a fall while attempting to use the bathroom. He was examined multiple times and the nurse didn't find anything broken, but he was apparently in quite a bit of pain. That, coupled with the fact that he had very little ability to communicate, move about, nor do pretty much anything for himself, made him pretty miserable. I guess he finally decided that it was time to go.

Yesterday, my mother called me here at the office and told me that he passed away very peacefully in his bed, surrounded by his children and grandchildren. My mother held his hand as he took his final breaths.

While we knew that this was inevitable, and we're all happy that he is no longer suffering, it is still very sobering that it has actually happened. Max Carlton Wilson is a very good man, and he is now in a much better place. He is free from the effects of his stroke, from his weakened body, from his inability to speak more than a word or two at a time. Though we will miss him, I look forward to the day when I will see him again.

Good bye for now, Grandpa.

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kathrishali

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from: [info]kathrishali
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 05:41 pm (UTC)
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I never really know what to say whenever anyone posts stuff like this beyond the usual offering of condolences and a sympathetic ear. *hugs* Well, anyway, there they are. *hugs more*

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Teric

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from: [info]teric
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 06:26 pm (UTC)
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Thank you, Kath. It's okay, really, but it's nice to know that I have friends around to help out.

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kbaccellia

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from: [info]kbaccellia
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 08:22 pm (UTC)
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Kimberly told me last night. Have a safe trip up to Utah. It was just a month ago we had to do the same thing due to the death of my huband's father. It is very sobering. But the funeral of my father-in-law was very peaceful. He also was in a lot of pain but I know he's now in a better place.

Kim

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Teric

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from: [info]teric
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 08:41 pm (UTC)
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Thank you, Kim. Yes, it is very sobering, even though we all knew and expected it to happen.

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kathrishali

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from: [info]kathrishali
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 08:33 pm (UTC)
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*huggles you* :) Especially sexy friends who are pretty to look at. :)

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Teric

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from: [info]teric
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 08:40 pm (UTC)
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*rolls eyes* You're incorrigible, did you know that? *grin*

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kathrishali

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from: [info]kathrishali
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 11:20 pm (UTC)
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I might've had an inkling. ;)

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A quiet moment

from: anonymous
date: Apr. 3rd, 2008 10:39 pm (UTC)
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We are sorry for your loss. This song says it better than I ever could:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=8lEs3qdb9VU

Let Peace Then Still the Strife (Mack Wilberg and David Warner)

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kylontario

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from: [info]kylontario
date: Apr. 4th, 2008 11:38 am (UTC)
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Teric, I know exactly how you're feeling. I've lost a lot of people I care about to all kinds of things. But you know we're all here for you, and if you need anything, I'll be happy to help.

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from: anonymous
date: Apr. 9th, 2008 10:45 am (UTC)
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I'm so sorry to hear that! He was always very nice to me, even when I crashed your family reunions.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

-Brig

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Karou WindStalker

My Condolences

from: [info]karou_windstalk
date: Apr. 16th, 2008 10:14 am (UTC)
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Sorry that I didn't respond sooner, my friend.

Here's hoping that the happy memories you have of your grandfather help you keep his spirrit alive for those who never had a chance to meet him.

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